Sunday

Chris and I have been fighting still. I know that I can be stubborn but sometimes I hit my limit on the pouting and him acting like a two year old so I had a really nice day of visiting with friends and family. I went to breakfast with Josh and Derek and Derek's family. It was really nice to see Josh he is so funny. I love that he is some head honcho in NY for the rail road. But is still a big nerd at heart and can be crass and gross with us. Derek is always good for a laugh and I always have a good time with him. After breakfast we went over to Derek's house for a quick visit. Then I went to Marie's house. I spoke with her on Christmas and she seemed a little down, I wanted to make sure that she was OK. Her boyfriend is out of town with his sick mother. I so I went to her house after and sat and talked with her. After that I went to moms house and had some dinner and hung out with the family. When I got home later the bed was made the kitchen picked up and Chris was down stairs. I know right now that I am being really really stubborn but sometimes the way that men act I get to a point when I am DONE Done DONE!! So today was a much needed day of me just doing what I want and not seeing the side glare for being somewhere for too long. Or the long sigh because he doesn't want to do something. So this worked out for the best....I'm sure that people think "Why are you getting married to someone that you argue with so much." And not all of its bad. I think that I can be naive about the way that things should be between two people. That if you love each other everything will fall into place but NO that's not true. SO to make things easier I just take a day here and there so that I'm not on the news for punching him in the head!!