The search continues.....

OK I know that 10-10-10 is pretty far away but I'm starting to get a little worried what if I can't find a place that will fit in my budget! OR that will open on a Sunday in Mormon ville....I spoke with Lindsey today on the phone she said I should ask people. "What is more important church or my wedding?" lol I wish I could say that. This is a bit stress full and annoying should I just go to Vegas and get married and then come back and have a nice reception some where?? Or should I have the nice wedding, with the dress, and the flowers, and friends and family?? I'm going to have to think about this long and hard. I see the pros and cons to getting married at the JP or having a nice wedding. So I guess I will have to try and out weigh them and I guess I could see what Chris wants to do too...It is his wedding too..hahah

Reception Halls

So I went to a reception hall today it was pretty but not as functional as I would like!! It didn't flow like I was thinking. But the price is pretty good so I guess we will see. Another problem that I ran into was that a lot of venues will not open on Sunday. 10-10-10 lands on a Sunday. So now I have to try to find something that will keep in my budget and is open on a Sunday. I guess I don't have to get married on THAT day. But I would really like to....so the search continues. Also Chris and I have stopped fighting so that is good. Sometimes its so hard to get him to see that he is being lame..I know that I can be that way too sometimes but this time he was being lame. Hopefully we can get through this wedding planning without killing each other..... Or me just killing him.

Sunday

Chris and I have been fighting still. I know that I can be stubborn but sometimes I hit my limit on the pouting and him acting like a two year old so I had a really nice day of visiting with friends and family. I went to breakfast with Josh and Derek and Derek's family. It was really nice to see Josh he is so funny. I love that he is some head honcho in NY for the rail road. But is still a big nerd at heart and can be crass and gross with us. Derek is always good for a laugh and I always have a good time with him. After breakfast we went over to Derek's house for a quick visit. Then I went to Marie's house. I spoke with her on Christmas and she seemed a little down, I wanted to make sure that she was OK. Her boyfriend is out of town with his sick mother. I so I went to her house after and sat and talked with her. After that I went to moms house and had some dinner and hung out with the family. When I got home later the bed was made the kitchen picked up and Chris was down stairs. I know right now that I am being really really stubborn but sometimes the way that men act I get to a point when I am DONE Done DONE!! So today was a much needed day of me just doing what I want and not seeing the side glare for being somewhere for too long. Or the long sigh because he doesn't want to do something. So this worked out for the best....I'm sure that people think "Why are you getting married to someone that you argue with so much." And not all of its bad. I think that I can be naive about the way that things should be between two people. That if you love each other everything will fall into place but NO that's not true. SO to make things easier I just take a day here and there so that I'm not on the news for punching him in the head!!

The day after

How can you love someone sometimes and then want to bash their head in at the same time...I love Chris to death but sometimes his pouting get SO annoying. To watch a grown man pout over the lamest of things is so dumb. We fought last night over a movie. I didn't feel like watching "The Hangover" He wanted to watch it I didn't cause we had rented all of these movies from Blockbuster and still had some to watch. LAME I know. So he slept down stairs and I slept upstairs. Oh well I'm sure that today will be better. I just get tired of his pouting. This is yet another reason that I am glad I don't have kids. I doubt that I could handle having a husband and a child pouting at the same time. Tonight is our family Christmas party for the moms side. I think it should be fun. I always like hanging out with family they are funny and make me laugh. And after fighting last night a good laugh is really in store.....

Christmas Eve

Ok I first have to vent...I know that there are more important things out there than this but still....So I have been DONE and I mean done shopping for a couple of days now. I did get some Christmas candy for Chris's and Pilar's sock but other than that DONE!! So today Chris and i went to the movies and saw Avatar it was a really good show I do suggest seeing it. I give it two thumbs up!! But any way so my mother calls and says OK for the Deamer Christmas party can pick what you want to bring and then starts reading a HUGE list of items that need to be brought to the party.....As she is reading I'm starting to get annoyed one because I have NO desire to go to the grocery store. And TWO because my Aunt has wasted so much time deciding on what she wants to do, that here it is Christmas eve and we should be going home and enjoying the evening. But NO we are going to the grocery store with all of the other people that put things off to the last minute and shopping...GOD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! OK now that that is out of the way. Chris and I went to the store got stuff for us to have a nice dinner for tomorrow and then came home and opened gifts....I got some clothes a gift card for a nice massage, a TON of candy, even some candy that I don't like I'm thinking he got it for me for him if you know what I mean. Lets see I got a camcorder, pj's, a shredder, and a blender. It was nice I knew about most of the gifts that I got I didn't know about the massage oh and he did get me the cd Boys like girls. It has the same song that was playing when to purposed to me..."Two is better than one." I thought that was so sweet of him...He got clothes, a watch, a computer, a printer, candy, and some other stuff.... I love that for the rest of my life I will be having Christmas Eve with him....I feel a little sad about the not having kids on nights like this...When my nieces and nephews still believe in Santa and get all excited about it...Just not sad enough to want one for my self. Maybe in the future you can rent kids out for holidays like this and then give them back so that you don't have all the really hard stuff along with having a kid....jk. I hope that everyone has a very merry Christmas!

Done Shopping?

So I thought that I was DONE shopping OK well I did forget candy for Chris's and Pilar's stocking. But hey through a candy cane or two in and your good right? Wrong my sister decides that today of all days that she is going to break up with her boyfriend. It has been rocky and my parents don't really like him. I think he is a nice guy and he seems to like my sister. I just don't think he makes very great choices especially for being a father. But then again no one is beyond making mistakes. But with her breaking up with him meant that I now had to take back his gift and we now had my brother in law that we needed to buy for. GREAT!!! 2 days before Christmas and now Chris and I have to go out and fight the madness. We found I think a pretty good gift that I think they will use quite a bit so that is good. I did get to go and get my massage and it was HEAVEN. My shoulders have been hurting so bad that I could barley stand it. So the massage was very needed. I feel a lot better and it was nice to also get the scrub so that my skin doesn't feel like crocodile skin any more. I love it when I can get a pamper day in. After I my massage Chris and I went to my uncle Craig's house. They had a technical problem that they needed my super smart fiance for...I'm gonna have to get used to saying fiance I keep calling him my boyfriend and my aunt corrected me tonight. It was glad that we were able to help them out my uncle Craig has always been right there if I needed something so I was glad to be able to help pay him back for something at least. Today was a really good day, I hope that Christmas is even better.

The Dress...

How do you pick out a dress if your not sure what you are looking for?? And then when you do find one you may like they don't have it anymore??? Geeze this is gonna be hard....Not the hardest thing in the world I have had to do but still hard! I have looked at a few dress and the one above is the one that I really really want wanted (all in white with the black belt) BUT I called the store and of coarse the have to call the designer and find out if they still make it (and in plus size.) I have a feeling I will have to look for a different dress. Oh well, I will have to do what I have to do. I'm looking at places that will do most of the work for me. I know that sounds really lazy and selfish. But I HATE having to think that I need to find all of this stuff and get it all organized. I don't think I could do it. I know I'm complaining and there are people out there that have kids, school, work, and family stuff. But this is me and I really want to find a place that will do most of the work for me! That would be the best I think.

Out of all the guys that work here only 2 noticed the ring on my hand, not bad out of 8 men. OMG the funniest thing happened today at work. One of our customers came in in the give Jeff (one of the 8) a gift for the holidays. He walked into he back and asked Nate & Adam (my bosses) where Jeff was. Both of them pointed to the bathroom door and said "I think he is in the bathroom." For some unknown reason the guy opened the bathroom door..........And there sat Chris Ooka (one of the other 8) doing his business on the pot. I guess that the guy got a little embarrassed. Nate asked him why he opened the door. He said "I guess I didn't hear what you said." But I laughed SO hard and I think that will teach Chris to LOCK the door from now on too funny!

But about this dress problem anyone out there with some advise on what to look for when your looking but don't know what you want???